What fun it was to write. I didn’t think I had another story or a poem in me. Of course, you have to know what mug-womps are and gribs and bee boes. It also helps to know what a Plecostomus is, the proper way to eat a donut, and how to get rid of bugs. But they can easily be explained –
• Plecostomus =a type of fish with a suction type mouth that eats the gunk off the glass in an aquarium
• Mug-womp = a made-up word for a bird on a wire with his mug on one side and his womp on the other
• Gribs = a made-up word for whiskers
• Bee boes = a made-up word for belly button (singular is Bee bo)
• A non-regular way to eat a donut is hanging it from a string at a Halloween Party
• The best way to get rid of a really large bug is to vacuum it up—there is no nasty residue, and whoosh, it’s gone!
“How to be a Gramma by Carol Kirk Witbeck is a delightful and heartwarming children’s book that captures the essence of grandmotherhood in the most charming way. Witbeck’s poetry effortlessly highlights the joy and uniqueness that comes with being called “Grandma,” and her verses are filled with humor, love, and wisdom. The book explores the diverse personalities and appearances of grandmas, emphasizing that there are no specific rules or requirements to fit the role.
What stands out most in Witbeck’s work is the inclusivity and broad representation it offers. Grandmas of all sizes, shapes, and interests are celebrated, illustrating that anyone can embody the role in their unique way. The playful rhymes engage young readers and convey the message that being a grandma is more about sharing love and creating memorable moments than adhering to stereotypes or expectations.
In addition to its engaging narrative, the book carries an underlying message of acceptance and self-worth, encouraging grandmas to embrace their individuality. It’s a perfect read for families, providing both entertainment and a heartwarming reflection on the special bond between grandmas and their grandchildren.
The book also serves as a wonderful tool for starting conversations between grandchildren and their grandmas. Through its engaging narrative and beautiful illustrations, it offers a platform for sharing personal stories, family traditions, and cherished memories. This interactive element transforms the reading session into a bonding experience, creating opportunities for children to learn more about their grandma’s life and interests. By celebrating the diverse ways grandmas show their love, How to be a Gramma fosters a deeper understanding and appreciation among family members, making it a timeless addition to any family’s library.
Overall, How to be a Gramma is a beautifully written and illustrated book that will resonate with readers of all ages. Whether you’re a grandchild or a grandmother, this book serves as a gentle reminder of the joy and love that grandmas bring into our lives. Highly recommended for anyone looking to celebrate the wonderful grandmas in their life.”
Book Synopsis: This story was written for children who have lost someone they love through death. It is a charming story of a mother comforting her son with answers to the innocent questions of a child who has lost his father. The story is simple and direct and written in a loving, tender way. It was written with the sincerest hope of bringing peace to those who read it, even the grown-ups.
“The death of a precious soul, especially someone very close to you, is a tragic event, but even more difficult is how to discuss it with your children and grandchildren. This book will help you talk about the very tender and painful experience with your children. It is easily understood by little children, teenagers, and even the adults reading to them. It will bring peace to your entire family because you will have a way to provide comfort to your children in a time of grievous loss.” – #1 New York Times Bestselling Author, Richard Paul Evans
Book Reviews
A Bedtime Story for Jeffrey is a tender and essential contribution to children’s literature dealing with grief and loss. Carol Kirk Witbeck’s experience as a spiritual educator shines through as she gently guides young readers through one of life’s most difficult concepts—death. The story is structured with clarity and simplicity, perfectly suited for children, while still offering profound comfort to adult readers. This book is a valuable resource for parents, counselors, and educators who are helping children navigate emotional pain and healing. — Poetic Silhouette
“What a beautiful and compassionate story! A Bedtime Story for Jeffrey is the kind of book you want to keep close—especially during moments when finding the right words feels impossible. Carol Kirk Witbeck writes with such love and understanding that you can’t help but feel comforted yourself as a reader. It’s gentle, meaningful, and incredibly thoughtful. This isn’t just a bedtime story—it’s a warm embrace for both kids and parents alike”. — LaMarcus C.
“This book touched my heart in ways I didn’t expect. A Bedtime Story for Jeffrey is more than just a story—it’s a healing conversation, a soft light in the darkness of loss. Carol’s words, infused with grace and motherly compassion, gently wrap around your soul like a lullaby of peace. You don’t just read this story—you feel it. You cry a little, smile a little, and by the end, you believe again in hope. This book is love, pure and simple”. — Lady Lynn